They say women can spot desperation a mile away?

i dont think its desperation that scares your friends girls away, he's getting to heavy and serious too soon. however back to your question, you can just tell. its not one thing, i guess being clingy and acting needy gives it away, you know, calling more than once a day or summat. its just something you can sense. it depends in what situation it is as well. for instance, late in a night club when you've seen a particular man chatting to every woman in the club, thats desperation,