Help me .... uality issues?

normally im with guys but recently ive been addicted to lesbbian . it makes me so horny i masturbate with fingers virators and even my sons vibrating toy. i also hve a friend hu lives with me hu turns me on loads and at drunk occasions we have kissed a lot... should i go to gay bars to meet lezzers to do stuff with or should i ask my friend if she is up for it??