Am i being abused by my bf?

Does that seem loving to you? Hurting you then becoming outraged if you speak against it?? He brusies you, you bleed because of him? That's disgusting, get out of that relationsip. A sarky comment is not worthy of violence, a decent man could laugh it off, perhaps have one or two sharp words depending on his mood. But hit you? That's abuse, sort it out quickly.